John and June’s love story proves that romance isn’t just for the young.
Love isn’t always a straight road. Sometimes, it takes a few unexpected turns, a couple of detours, and maybe even a dance or two before finding the right person. For John and June – both now in their nineties – love came later in life, after heartbreak, loss, and lessons learned. And now, 28 years into their marriage, they wouldn’t have it any other way.
Valentine’s Day is often about first love, but John and June’s story is proof that second (or even third) chances can be just as sweet. Their journey together, filled with music, dancing, and a mutual understanding of what really matters, reminds us that love isn’t just for the young – it’s for anyone willing to open their heart.
Finding love on the dance floor
John and June’s paths crossed at an RSL club, where the rock and roll music was loud and the dance floor was full. “We used to do a lot of rock and roll and square dancing,” John recalls. “It was hectic, but so much fun.”
They both had their own stories, their own pasts, but what mattered was that they found each other at the right time. “We clicked,” John says simply. “If we had a disagreement, we patched it up quickly. That’s the beauty of our relationship.”
Their shared love of music, movies, and good company formed the foundation of their marriage. They may not have met young, but they found something even better – companionship built on mutual respect, laughter, and the understanding that life is meant to be enjoyed.
The beauty of love later in life
John and June didn’t have the luxury of growing old together from a young age, but they’ve certainly made the most of their years as a couple. They’ve travelled, danced, and built a home together, blending their families from previous marriages along the way.
They both now live at TriCare’s Sunnybank Hills Aged Care Residence, where they continue to make the most of their time together.
“We still keep busy,” John says. “We play Canasta with friends, we go to Probus Club, and we join in the activities here.”
The decision to move into TriCare wasn’t just about care – it was about staying together.
“June was here first,” John explains. “Then they offered me a spot, and I had to decide if I wanted to be here with June or stay alone at home. I chose to be here.”
For John, the choice was easy. “I was in the house all on my own. It was a bit lonely.”
Now, they have a community, companionship, and most importantly, each other.
The benefits of companionship in later years
Love at any age is a gift, but research shows that relationships later in life can be particularly beneficial. According to The Australian Journal on Ageing, older adults in happy relationships experience lower levels of stress, reduced risks of dementia, and improved overall wellbeing.
Studies from the National Seniors Australia organisation also highlight that strong social connections – whether through romantic relationships or close friendships – help to combat loneliness and promote a sense of purpose.
Tricare understands the importance of fostering an environment where companionship can flourish, whether it’s long-term couples like John and June continuing their journey together or new friendships forming over shared activities.
Valentine’s Day: A time to celebrate love, in all its forms
For John and June, Valentine’s Day isn’t about flowers or grand gestures. They’ve done that before. These days, love looks like a shared laugh over morning coffee, a friendly game of cards, or listening to their favourite rock and roll records.
Their story is a reminder that love doesn’t always happen when you expect it – but when it does, it’s always worth celebrating.
So this Valentine’s Day, whether you’re reminiscing about decades together or finding joy in new friendships, take a moment to appreciate the love in your life. Because love, at any age, is always worth dancing for.
Happy Valentine’s Day. ❤️
