From a dance floor spark to 40 years of love, Michael and Joan’s story is a testament to lifelong companionship, laughter, and the joy of shared memories.
Valentine’s Day is a chance to pause, reflect, and appreciate the people who have walked through life with us. For Michael and Joan, love started on the dance floor and has lasted more than 40 years, proving that true love only deepens with time.
Love at first sight… almost!
When Michael first saw Joan at an Italian dance club, she was gliding across the floor in a white dress with a floral pattern, and he knew instantly – “That’s the girl for me.” They started dating soon after, and within six months, their bond was undeniable. Five years later, sitting on a hill overlooking the Shannon River in Ireland, Michael asked Joan to marry him with a traditional Claddagh ring, a symbol of love, loyalty, and friendship. A year later, they celebrated their engagement again, this time with a three-cut diamond ring during a special dinner with family and friends.
Now, 40 years on, their love story is as strong as ever, filled with family, laughter, and the small moments that make a life well-lived.
A life built on love, laughter, and a little bit of compromise
One of the secrets to Michael and Joan’s lasting relationship? A sense of humour and a healthy dose of compromise. Michael readily admits that he’s usually the first to say sorry (though whether he caused the issue is another story entirely). They share a love for reading, cooking (with Michael claiming to be the better chef), gardening, going to the movies, watching the footy, and indulging in fine dining.
Every year, they celebrate Valentine’s Day in a different way, making sure to carve out time just for each other.
Why love matters at every stage of life
Valentine’s Day isn’t just for new romances – it’s an opportunity for everyone to celebrate the relationships that enrich our lives. Studies show that having a loving partner in later years isn’t just good for the heart – it’s good for overall health. Research from Australia’s Better Health Channel suggests that strong relationships can help reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and even improve cognitive function. Older adults in happy relationships experience lower rates of depression, increased resilience, and a greater sense of belonging.
At TriCare, we understand just how important these connections are. That’s why we make it easy for couples to stay together, providing living arrangements that allow partners to continue sharing their lives while receiving the support they need. Whether it’s enjoying a meal together, reminiscing about shared memories, or simply sitting side by side in comfortable companionship, love remains a vital part of wellbeing.
A love that lasts
Like any couple, Michael and Joan have had their fair share of ups and downs, but after 40 years, they are still each other’s best friend. Now enjoying their time at TriCare Williams Landing Residence in Melbourne’s West, they remain surrounded by the love and memories they’ve built together.
This Valentine’s Day, whether you’re celebrating with a partner, reminiscing about a lost love, or simply cherishing the friendships that bring joy to your life, take a moment to appreciate the connections that make life richer.
From all of us at TriCare, we wish you a Valentine’s Day month filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories!
